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| Eli is often found like this. Watching Praise Baby. |
arnold party of 5
boostacysuemookseli
February 7, 2012
January 30, 2012
heartache
I have been noticing that Mattie Sue will only wear long sleeve shirts, jeans, or leggings to school lately. When I asked her about it she said that a boy at school said she needed to shave her arms and legs because they were so hairy. My heart fell to the floor as I was helping her get dressed that morning. Hiding my tears behind my strong yet concerned mom face I told her that people told me the same thing growing up and that those arm hairs were passed down from her aunties too (be proud and wear them well, we have a legacy to uphold). I tried to validate her feelings and explain that if it wasn't that comment it would be others that would make her feel badly about herself and in many different ways. We went on for a bit and she smiled acting like it wouldn't bother her to hear about it and she would be fine saying a funny, 'Yep, this hair keeps me warm in the winter!'
What I really wanted to do was just place inside her a gene that says, I'm not going to let you get me down! I'm trying to instill the truth... You are Beautifully Perfectly Made in His eyes (and mine but that doesn't count as much). God wanted her hairy arms, freckles that her mama loves, skinny little legs and a smile that lights up her face for her, just for her. All designed perfectly for Miss Mattie Sue, no one else. A flood of memories has since come back to me growing up thinking the exact same thing....I've got more arm hair than all my friends. It took me 34 years and plenty of tears to fight off the negative body image the world puts on you, boys measuring my tiny boobs against my friends in sixth grade, pimples, chunky belly and so on and so on. 'This is me people, deal with it!'
If I could just take this battle from her it would save her so much heartache and innocence about this crazy world at such a young age. In the same breath I know that each time someone hurts her those are the comments and tears that will shape her soul that I beg Jesus to grab hold of each night.
I'm going to have to trust the Lord on this one..... You know what you're doing Lord....right? Cause ouch....
What I really wanted to do was just place inside her a gene that says, I'm not going to let you get me down! I'm trying to instill the truth... You are Beautifully Perfectly Made in His eyes (and mine but that doesn't count as much). God wanted her hairy arms, freckles that her mama loves, skinny little legs and a smile that lights up her face for her, just for her. All designed perfectly for Miss Mattie Sue, no one else. A flood of memories has since come back to me growing up thinking the exact same thing....I've got more arm hair than all my friends. It took me 34 years and plenty of tears to fight off the negative body image the world puts on you, boys measuring my tiny boobs against my friends in sixth grade, pimples, chunky belly and so on and so on. 'This is me people, deal with it!'
If I could just take this battle from her it would save her so much heartache and innocence about this crazy world at such a young age. In the same breath I know that each time someone hurts her those are the comments and tears that will shape her soul that I beg Jesus to grab hold of each night.
I'm going to have to trust the Lord on this one..... You know what you're doing Lord....right? Cause ouch....
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Mattie Sue
January 24, 2012
10 on Tuesday!!
1. I've been gone too long from the blog world. Sorry mom.
2. We loved being in Texas for 2 weeks. Loved all the quality family time and the food!!
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8. We also explored at Nama and Poppy's house and Memaw and Pepaw's houses (big acres of land = hours of fun). Nama .T's house too!!
9. How precious are these boots from Grandma Sharon? Can't stand it can you? Me either. And my sister started making these scripture frames. This one for Eli is a page from my mom's childhood bible. The girls and I have one as well and they really are so special to us:)
10. My new favorite app is one from Sue's school list of educational apps. I downloaded the free version and played it once to understand it to explain it to the girls, then I got sucked....right...in. See if you can beat 93 words on PopWords!!! Love it!!!
2. We loved being in Texas for 2 weeks. Loved all the quality family time and the food!!
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| My sistas!! |
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| Hot tubbin' in Temple!! |
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| Kiddie Parkin' with Nama!! |
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| Crazy Cousins!! |
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| Temple cousins! We have the best cousins ever!! When we walk in the house the kids all take off and go play. Aunt Jenny and I chat and cook and shop all while the cousins |
9. How precious are these boots from Grandma Sharon? Can't stand it can you? Me either. And my sister started making these scripture frames. This one for Eli is a page from my mom's childhood bible. The girls and I have one as well and they really are so special to us:)
10. My new favorite app is one from Sue's school list of educational apps. I downloaded the free version and played it once to understand it to explain it to the girls, then I got sucked....right...in. See if you can beat 93 words on PopWords!!! Love it!!!
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10 on Tuesdays,
Texas
December 9, 2011
Christmas photos
Our friend took some fun photos of our family of 5! It was interesting to see what came of the photos, getting 5 people to look like they were having the time of their lives while staring into a huge black camera was a bit tricky. Malyn is our ham when she wants to be, so if she is not being a ham she has a half smile lean back that she does. Sue is always trying to keep up her smile and fake laugh when necessary. I (mom) had internal conversations going the whole time, 'what's my hair doing?', 'how am I supposed to stand,' 'shoot I should have applied another layer of gloss,' and so on. Boo has a smile that he uses for every family photo and in every shoot he does (so he's easy and always looks spot on). And Eli is our biggest wild card right now. You never know when one 14 month old will do his famous furrowed brow, classic still face, or break out in a happy smile.
Here are some of the photos (credits Jamie Sterba and Erik Svendsen) taken in Palos Verdes, CA
Merry Christmas!! I'm busy having sew much fun with gift making:)))
Here are some of the photos (credits Jamie Sterba and Erik Svendsen) taken in Palos Verdes, CA
Merry Christmas!! I'm busy having sew much fun with gift making:)))
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Boo,
Eli,
Malyn,
Mattie Sue
November 17, 2011
Thumbs Up Thursday!
Thumbs up for the Tooth necklaces I made the girls last week. Mattie Sue has yet to loose her first tooth and told me she wants to be prepared at school when one finally comes loose. So the tooth pouch necklace was born! Malyn wanted one with the bird wing as the tooth pocket and Sue just wanted an M and a tooth on it. Turned out cute huh? I love handmade.
Thumbs Up for the Singer Brilliance! The newobsession love in my life! Next up....comfy Christmas pants! Thank you pop for the early birthday gift! I am loving this!
Happy Thursday!
Thumbs Up for the Singer Brilliance! The new
Happy Thursday!
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Thumbs Up Thursday
November 16, 2011
5 Years Old!!
| Happy 5th Birthday Malyn Grace!! We are so blessed with your joy filled spirit!! Stacy- 'Malyn, do you feel older?' Malyn- 'Yep, I woke up taller!!!' |
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Malyn
November 15, 2011
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